Dating a man twelve years older
Things that surprise me range from how well they give oral to what they think about a certain style or genre of music. Also, that not all older women want kids or have kids, which would've been a sticking point for me.
Man C: Sexually, I was surprised by her openness to experiment and surprised that there was no stigma about oral sex.
My current girlfriend pursued me on social media and then we started dating. My last girlfriend and I would sit down and listen to all my favorite music, and it was a real bonding experience I'd never had before. Man B: I've never gotten anything more than a "huh."Man C: Sometimes people think I'm her son, but when that happens we just look at each other and laugh. " They'll also mention how it's been acceptable for older men to date much younger women and then question why it's not more socially acceptable for women to date younger guys.
Man B: No, but the attraction has always been there. Man A: I like how mature they can be when handling serious situations, but also how playful and youthful they are.
I'm not looking for a mother figure or to be nurtured. Show interest in it, but you don't have to like her style of movies or music. If you want a serious relationship, make sure you don't act like a kid. Man B: That they'll be judged really harshly for being attracted to them. People don't really judge you for dating older women as often as your fears might lead you to believe. Ladies, younger guys who think you're beautiful and want to treat you right are out there. With all that drive comes a lot of time we don’t get to share together.Early on I used to have a fit every week about what he could do to make more time for me, but at a certain point, after some compromising, you end up just trying to be supportive and patient.